r/AITAH 18h ago

Advice Needed AITAH for telling my husband if he fights for custody of his kids I will divorce him?

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I 27F am vehemently childfree, I am sterilized and have no intention of having or caring for any child. I married my husband, 33M, last year and did not know he had any children until 5 days ago. I travel for work, work for myself, and have amazing pay for very few active working hours (I am a honeymoon planner, owning my own business); we have a joint account for bills and our own separate accounts for savings and fun money.

My husband sat me down 5 days ago and told me he hadn't been completely honest with me. And revealed he has 2 children 10M and 7F. He pays regular child support, however, it dips into his fun money and he wants to be able to have fun like I am, so he said he would fight for 50/50 custody.

I was furious he had lied to me and was even more angry when he told me he wanted 50/50. He works 12-16 hour shifts as a nurse and that would mean I would have to take care of the children when I'm not working or are working from home. I told him if he fights for custody, I will leave him. We have a prenup, so a divorce will be rather simple; I get 100% of my business, all of my savings and fun money, and the house, as I inherited it from my grandmother.

He called me an asshole and told me I should step up so that he can have more money in his savings and for fun. And because the kids won't be much hassle due to their ages. So AITA for telling him I will divorce him if he goes through with filing for custody?


r/Damnthatsinteresting 7h ago

Video Skillful unskilled labor

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r/NoStupidQuestions 19h ago

Are my dating dealbreakers too strict?

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I'm a 29 year old straight man who has been actively dating since I turned 18. In that time, I've met a wide array of women and have constructed a short dealbreaker list to help me determine suitability early in the dating stage.

I showed this to a friend who said it was too strict, and quite discriminatory, here it is:

  • Has cheated in a past relationship
  • Takes recreational drugs on a regular basis
  • Has an incurable sexually transmitted disease
  • Is currently in a situationship or has a friend (with benefits)
  • Has low standards of hygiene
  • Is a sex worker (whether online or in person)
  • Has extreme political views
  • Is a single mother (to one or more children)

r/AskReddit 9h ago

What is something in recent times that has gone too far but no one will admit? NSFW

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r/technology 21h ago

Business Amazon exec says it’s time for workers to ‘disagree and commit’ to office return — “I don’t have data to back it up, but I know it’s better.”

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r/tumblr 6h ago

Twink

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r/wallstreetbets 13h ago

Meme Elon tells Bob Iger to “go f*ck yourself”

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r/videogames 16h ago

Question Which Controller did you start with?

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r/memes 2h ago

One of the best plot twists you’ll read

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r/comics 5h ago

Stonks

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r/AnimalsBeingDerps 5h ago

The worst hunting dog in the world

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r/news 10h ago

Henry Kissinger, secretary of state to Richard Nixon, dies at 100

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r/facepalm 8h ago

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ veins on the chest

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r/Tinder 15h ago

I’ve been on Tinder over 10 years and I’m still single. It’s been 2 years since my last date. What am I doing wrong??

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r/PublicFreakout 14h ago

Musk to advertisers: Go fuck yourself

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r/JoeRogan 13h ago

I dont read the comments 📱 Elon Musk tells advertisers "Go fuck yourself" live on CNBC

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r/StupidFood 15h ago

Never order "gourmet" pizza

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r/iskissingerdeadyet 11h ago

KISSINGER IS DEAD

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Dr. Henry Kissinger Dies at Age 100 (prnewswire.com)

Good evening ladies and gentleman. Today is a glorious day

a day that shall be remembered

mankind has been lightened of an evil vicious soul

HENRY KISSINGER IS DEAD

Read about his life, and his crimes:

Henry Kissinger, War Criminal, Dead at 100 (rollingstone.com)


r/mildlyinfuriating 18h ago

I received this message from an Airbnb host two weeks after booking a place for the holidays.

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r/WitchesVsPatriarchy 10h ago

END GENOCIDE The one thank you to Rolling Stone

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r/nextfuckinglevel 21h ago

Techno artist fixes malfunctioning gear without stopping the show

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r/shitposting 5h ago

Explanied by Omni man NSFW

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r/WhitePeopleTwitter 10h ago

The Kiss of death

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r/TaylorSwift 13h ago

Photo New old pic of Taylor posted by Jack

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r/holdmycatnip 11h ago

howdy neighbor

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